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Ins and outs of prostate massaging

Ins and outs of prostate massaging

In today’s world of love making our own personal experiences and sexual wellness are now topics we openly talk about. One subject that seems to be on everybody’s lips at the moment is P-Spot massaging. Anal Play has moved into the mainstream and now everybody wants to acheive that amazing P-Spot orgasm.

With our increasing liberal sexual appetites Anal Play has now become commonplace in many of our sex lives. We have embraced the P-Spot pleasure revolution with vigor and are eagerly incorporating it into our bedroom routines, with men (both straight and gay) being the most enthusiastic of participants to engage in the pleasures of anal sex. Previously the subject of anal sex was largely ignored, however the delightful discussions of P-Spot orgasms are now engaging eager audiences right across the globe.  There are many different types of sex toys designed for anal play including Butt Plugs, Anal Stimulators (aka P-Spot massager), Vibrators, Anal beads, Dildos/Dongs and Douches. We will discuss the Anal Stimulators below amongst all things P-Spot related.

Before we delve into the sexEstore anal toy drawer and to ensure we hit the bull’s-eye let’s cover off a few basics of the P-Spot.

prostate diagramSo what is a Prostate?

The Prostate is a walnut-shaped gland that is located about 3 inches into a man’s anal cavity. Its function is to secrete a slightly alkaline fluid, milky or white in appearance, that makes up about 30% of semen during ejaculation. It is possible for some men to achieve orgasm solely through stimulation of the prostate gland, such as a prostate massage or anal sex (the P-Spot orgasm!).

How do I find my Prostate?

The easiest way of finding your prostate for the first time is with your own finger (lubricated of course). Insert your slippery digit into your anus and search for a walnut shaped gland about 3 inches in on the front facing wall (tummy side). It may take you a couple of attempts to reliably locate it but practice makes perfect here. Soon you’ll be honing in on it like a pleasure-seeking cruise missile.

prostate massager anal stimulatorWhat toys will massage my P-Spot?

There are numerous Anal Play toys available but Anal Stimulators (aka Prostate Massagers) are specifically designed to massage the prostate. There is a good selection to choose from and include vibrating, nudging, bending and rechargeable types. Choose one that you feel has enough of a curve and to reach your pleasure zone while also fitting your performance and budget requirements. Most have a curved structure and a bulbous tip used to directly stimulate the prostate. Vibrating options take the prostate experience to a whole new level, introducing amazing new sensations into the mix. It does not matter which Anal Stimulator you choose as we are sure it won’t be your one and only.

Sexestore Anal Stimulator pick: The USB rechargeable Nomi Tang Spotty P-Spot Perineum Massager combines 3 revolving functions and 5 stimulation modes creating deep and strong sensations. Provides amazing perineum sensations too.

anal stimulatorHow do I use a prostate massager?

It is as easy as inserting your well lubricated Anal Stimulator and lovingly massaging your P-Spot. You can use your Anal Stimulator solo for eye rolling lengthy masturbation sessions or together with your partner. Some people (like me) prefer to experience P-Spot massages in conjunction with genital stimulation while others enjoy just stimulating the P-Spot by itself. Discovery and personal preference is the key here, finding where to prod, how much to nudge, when to go all out and when to back off. The gentle persuasion of the prostate is capable of helping to achieve much harder erections and amazingly powerful pelvic thrusting orgasms.

A sexEstore honorary mention: The Black Door No. 17 Bendable Twist is a quality vibrating and bendable Anal Stimulator all for amazing value.


Of course whenever you are up for some P-Spot playtime be sure to use some quality lubricant ensuring everything goes smoothly (the sexEstore pick is Juicy Watermelon Flavoured Edible Massage Oil). Some people also like to douche before anal play. I can admit I did douche leading up to my first anal play as a couple however it was more of a vanity thing than a cleanliness requirement. Now the only prep needed for me is to grab my favourite toy and jump under the covers with my partner.

The important thing with initiating Anal Play is to just enjoy yourself and explore what works best for you and your partner.

The sexEstore team - Your online sex toy store

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