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Reset Your Sex Life Sex With 8 Easy Tips

Reset Your Sex Life Sex With 8 Easy Tips

If you’re partnered and stuck in a sexual rut, you’re certainly not alone. While dry spells are a perfectly normal part of any healthy relationship, it’s still no consolation for couples experiencing one. Here are some easy tips to help regenerate the passion if your sex life.

1. Rediscover your own physical body

Go dancing or try yoga, once you reestablish your connection with your own body, you can affirm your connection with your partner’s body. One survey found that coupled but sexually inactive people were prone to feelings of sadness and felt unattractive. Reclaim your sexual power by finding new ways to move and get comfortable in your body.

2. Reignite with a fresh experience

Doing something new creates a sense of bonding and intimacy. Think outside of the box and do an activity that might scare you or excite you, like an amusement park ride or an escape room. You will create the same feelings you had in the honeymoon phase of your relationship.

Experts say dopamine and other chemicals in the brain are directly linked to physical attraction and romantic passion, which is why bonding over a new activity together could help spark arousal.

3. Schedule a sex exploration night

Sex exploration night
Take one night to have a discussion about what you do and don’t like sexually, try new sex moves, and talk about your hidden fantasies. Don’t pressure yourself to perform, just experiment to see what you like and say what you normally avoid saying out of fear of embarrassing yourself or sounding insensitive.

An online research survey on 1,200 men and women ages 18-25 showed that men and women have wildly different sexual expectations. These expectations are unlikely to change overnight, so couples must communicate their likes and dislikes in bed in order to have a mutually pleasurable experience.

4. Take a sex class or 2

Taking a couples sex class can open up a whole new avenue of sex play. Finding a one-night sex class is as easy as hopping on Facebook. Couples can learn about new sex positions, techniques, and toys and props for sex play, in a learning environment that is fun not intimidating.

5. Go on a romantic overnight getaway

Go away and revist romance, pamper yourself and your partner and rekindle the sexual intamancy between you both. Role play on your getaway if you like by making up backstories for your characters ahead of time, dress up, and have fun with it. Studies show that couples that travel together have better sex lives.

You will benefit even if you choose to spend time together in ways that are nonsexual. Go bush walking together, take a drive and visit a new town. Any mutual activity that takes you out of your regular routine can shine an invigurating light on your sex life.

6. Sexflix & Chill

Sexflix and chill
Get to know each other’s desires, there is a wide range of porn readilly available that is couple-friendly. Watching others invloved in sexual activity can be a powerful sexual catalyst. Porn can also be a way to dicover sexual encounters that your imagination is wanting to participate in but you’re comfortable in visiting to in person.

For couples that want to take a walk on the wild side there are sex conventions that you can attend. They offer sex classes and you can observe sex play without participating and perhaps put into practice when you get home later. Sexpo is an accessable annual event help in most capital cities.

7. Pleasure yourself while your partner watches

Masturbating allows your partner to see you enjoy pleasure, which can build intimacy. Allowing your partner to witness how and where you like to be touched will not only benfit your subsequant sexual encounters but encourages closeness. Masturbation also has numerous health benefits, including improving your mood and relieving pent-up stress.

For adventurous couples wear a remote-control sex toy on your date and let your partner hold the remote control. Use it as a form of extended foreplay to put your libidos in overdrive before you eventually reach home.

8. Clear the air

Lack of communication is often what leads to sex droughts in a relationship. A recent survey found that couples who argued frequently were actually happier than those that avoided conflict. Practice having hard conversations as fostering intimacy can often be as simple as having a conversation you have been avoiding.

Don’t get discouraged by what your partner says. Just remember that discovering what’s wrong in your relationship is part of making an effort to improve it. There are always solutions if you are willing to compromise. Even if you are sexually mismatched, you can get creative and fix those inequities.

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