Your Guide To Sex Whips And Paddles

With the embracing of bondage play into mainstream sexual practices over recent years Sex Whips and Paddles have become common place in many of our bedrooms. Your aim might be to impart some teasing pain during a sexy spanking session or to simply feather your partner during role play producing spontaneous laughter and new exciting experiences together. Either way whips, paddles, canes and crops can introduce both pleasure and pain into your sex lives. It is interesting to note that the vast majority of Whips and Paddles are employed as a teasing tools to build sexual anticipation and actually rarely used to impart pain.

So which spanking implement is for me? We’ve provided an introductory overview below that will gently guide you into the slap happy world of Sex Whips and Paddles.

Paddles

Paddles are my favourite of the slap happy genre and can be such awesome fun. Their wide and flat dimensions deliver a fantastic ‘Thwack’ noise which is where the excitement and fun is for me. A light thwacking with a paddle mixed in with some sexy role play (I’m a very very naughty girl!) always amounts to some enjoyable fun. Paddles come in a variety of materials (Leather, Rubber, PVC) with leather being the most popular. Some are shaped like regular paddles while others come in hand or boot shapes. They can be bought singularly or also found in amongst our couples sex kits.

Don’t be shy and experiment with the paddle type and application that is right for you. Perhaps a loud quick PVC option that complements your role play outfit or a heavier boot option that your partner can feel the weight of.

SexEstore Paddle pick: The Raging Stallion Jack Boot Over The Knee Paddle is a wonderfully humorous take on the standard paddle and sure to become a hilarious ingredient to your paddle play.

Whips

Whips (aka Floggers) are the most popular of all the spanking gear.  They come in various forms and materials but all generally consist of a handle with dangling multiple strands. Whips are designed to impart a stinging sensation when employed. The heavier the material used (ie: metal stands or tips) will usually bring about a stronger sting. Of course the very fact that you are holding a whip in you hand does not necessarily mean you will inflict pain.

Whips can be an immensely fun and powerful component of your role play costume. Nothing makes your point clearer than the swish of your cat of nine tails. Some even choose to unleash their whip vigorously on nearby static objects yet only use them very sensually on their partner.

SexEstore Sex Whip pick: The Scarlet Couture Diamond Flogger is a stylish leather sex whip that has proved to be a lot of fun in the bedroom.

Crops

Crops are are a lot of fun and take me back to my pony club days. Who would have thought the standard riding crop would make a reemergence in my bedroom decades later. Riding crops are generally a couple of feet long, made of leather and have a leather strap on the end. They have a much smaller surface area than paddles but will still produce a sound on contact. The smaller size allows you to focus on particular erogenous zones.

A fantastic addition to bedroom role play the words ‘Giddy-Up’ coupled with the slap and tickle of the riding crop will ensure there is vast amounts of pleasure to be had.

SexEstore Riding Crop pick: A combo Riding Crop and Whip the Scarlet Couture Duo Crop & Flogger is a riding adventure waiting to be had.

Canes

Canes can be thought of as hard, stiff, thin paddles and can be made of cane, wood and leather. The cane due to it’s thin, hard properties has the strongest sting of any of the spanking tools and is generally used sparingly. Too serious for me, however if you or your partner enjoy the upper end of the pleasurable pain scale then this one is for you. Remember just because it can inflict pain doesn’t mean you have it use it that way (well very often anyhow!).

SexEstore Cane pick: Sporting a whist strap the Fetish Fantasy Series Bamboo Slap Happy Cane will get the job done.

Well there we go, an introduction into the world of the slap happy implements available to you. Which one do you think will hit the spot? There is only one way to find out, so jump right in and grab yours now in the sexEstore online shop.

The sexEstore team - Your online sex toy store